She thinks it's just a weird kinky thing. Losing my dogs I did. If you end up at a stage where there's an opportunity to make plans, put it off! Share on Facebook Share on Twitter. I came close to telling my wife that I am gay last night but I couldn't do it. Beyond the initial hurt, lies and confusion, there is more to be said. I'm 22 and gay.
gay: I am scared to tell my wife that I am gay - Times of India
The wife may experience: Perhaps they aren't as ready to share their hurt. Thank you for the encouragement to others hon. Don't play the victim. Having sexual attraction to the same sex is no one's fault and likely has been there since birth.
There's no easy way to have this kind of a conversation. They agreed with the spirit of my reply. Making decisions Once your spouse accepts that things have permanently changed, she may be able to proceed with making decisions about the future. In retrospect perhaps we should have discussed things more but then it would have emphasised our differences to other families.
Over the next few years I had to have some reconstructive surgery on my face, largely to eliminate the scarring and to repair some muscular and tissue damage. My love-hate relationship with gyms. Let's run a scenario - Imagine you ARE in a same sex relationship and you had kids by whatever means with your partner. Wow what a horrible two days it has been. It is like two steps forward one step back. I am constantly tired, irritable, lethargic and have lost interest in most things.